As many of you know I have been with my family on vacation in the Outer Banks of North Carolina for the past week. I spent most of the day yesterday playing on the beach with my two boys ( Ethan 6 and Evan 4). We spent a ton of time searching for the perfect sea shell.
It struck me that finding sea shells is a lot like chasing your dreams. There are an infinite number of shells in the ocean just like possibilities in your life. Like life the ocean just keeps coming at you whether you choose to grab the shell of your choice or not. Like life there are external factors you must contend with like the height of the surf, the temperature of the water, the temperature of the air……. Ultimately you can either get hung up on these external factors or set your mind and go after the shell you desire!!!!
I hear alot about external factors but I assure no matter what your excuse there is someone one with the same busy schedule, kids, genetics, metabolism or whatever that has gotten in great shape and achieved their goals. This means you can too!!!!!!!!!!
Have a great day- I am going to claim the shells and dreams - of MY choice- how about you?
“Results tell an interesting story….they tell the truth” – Bob Proctor
What story are your results telling? Are your current thoughts, words, and actions serving you well? You must come to grips with the hard truth that your current situation is a reflect of your past thoughts, feeling and actions.
Your beliefs go hand in hand with your actions. Ask yourself right now and make a list of the thoughts, feelings, and actions that are keeping you from the body, health and life you desire. Now go burn that piece of paper! This is liberating. Now make a list of 3 actions you must adopt to move toward the body, health and life you desire! Keep this list where you can read it everyday multiple times and take action.
Dax Moy has created a great system “The Magic 100″ which will super charge your efforts!
I received this video via “The Secret” newsletter. Take the 3 minutes and watch the video – you owe it to your self. On a side note I loved the book – some do some don’t but like a respected colleague of mine once said I have never gotten dumber from reading a book. You can get some thing out of anything!
So take a moment and watch – believe in god or not that is your choice but after watching you have to realize how prefect this world we live in is. Hard to believe it happened by just chance! Have a great day!
One of the major things I learned from Motivational Speaker James Ray was if you want to be super successful don’t spend high quality time with people you don’t want to be or become. This may sound harsh but I get it. It makes sense.
It doesn’t mean you are better than those friends it merely means you have a different mission for your life.
I hope none of you are thinking “what do you mean a mission”.
Do you ever see an eagle flying with a flock of pigeons? NO they are on a completely different plain. Birds of a feather flock together – bet you have heard that one. You have probably even said it. It is true in general isn’t it.
We can probably all agree that there is a lot to be said for surrounding ourselves with like minded people whom want to the same things out of life that we do. This no more obvious than when you are trying to raise your level of fitness.
Think about how hard it is to eat “clean” when you are surrounded by a bunch of people who don’t care about their bodies. How about the way your non exercising friends look at you when you express how great a hard workout was.
So here is my new variation of James Ray’s rule
“Don’t eat like anyone you don’t want to look like”
I have helped thousands lose weight over the past 16 years in the fitness industry. In that time I have learned there are no short cuts but several simple truths. Fat-loss and having the body of your dreams is so simple not easy but definitely simple. If you are looking for crazy tricks you have the wrong guy. I am here to give you tried and true easy to use research based FAT LOSS techniques.
1. Eat more protein - its caloric cost to digest or Thermic Effect of Food is 25- 30% . Another words if you eat 100 calories of protein you burn 25 to 30 calories just to digest the food you eat. 100 calories of carbohydrate only requires 7 calories to digest – bummer!
2. A 2005 study in the Journal of clinical nutrition shows those who eat small frequent meals ate fewer calories, had lower post meal insulin levels, and lower cholesterol levels.
3. Buy a Tivo – What does this have to do with fat loss? Easy the average American watches 3 hours of tv per day. With a Tivo you can save 10 minutes per 30 minute show so that means to average American would have a extra hour per night to workout. Who says you don’t have time to workout.
This past weekend my sons and I ventured to the Prairie Air show in Peoria, IL. to see the Navy Blue Angels perform. In my younger years, the only thing I would marvel was the power and speed of the team. I still love the testosterone filled, high speed passes and the sheer power of these $28 million machines. This time, I was struck by something all together different.
Upon arriving at the air show it was hard not to notice the center piece of the show the F/A 18 Blue Angels planes, perfectly parked in front of the crowd on the runway. The planes were spotless the gear and support equipment were impeccably placed around the planes. It seemed nothing was left to chance even with the placement of their gear. To some, this wouldn’t be noticed or even expected. I was struck by this commitment to excellence. That is something you rarely encounter in todays world. The only time people see this type of attention, would be at an event like the Blue Angels air show.
“I think that one of the greatest things that I talk about is making simple commitments. That you are going to get the job done and that you are going to work as hard as you can at everything you do. Once you have that simple commitment, whether it’s hanging up your clothes in your closet or even on your final exam, if you do the best you can at everything that you do, there is really nothing that you cannot achieve, whether you want to be a Blue Angel or if you want to be successful at whatever you do.”
Lieutenant Scholl
It is not stretch to understand why these pilots and crew are so committed to such precision given the consequences in the air if they don’t but what about the commitment to even parking their planes perfectly separated at the proper angle and the crew placement of gear. Now this is attention to detail and 100% commitment to doing everything to the best of their ability. You see I call this the “trickle up phenomenon” . Most only pay attention to doing the big things right and often lose ground in the details.
“Success Lies in the details”!!!
I believe if you commit to paying attention to doing the little things right, the seemingly insignificant things the big things become easy to do with excellence.
Let me give you an example. Most people who want to lose weight or improve their physiques – exercise ,workout, and get their cardiovascular and maybe even eat O.K., but find it easy to cheat at least a couple times per day. When it comes to their food intake they think “Well, it’s just one meal, one bite, or one snack – what can it hurt?” Ever done this? This is exactly what I am talking about. You concentrate on the big things but fall down on the small things. These small things add up and I can guarantee you, EVERYTHING MATTERS.
Am I saying never cheat or never have fun? NO. I am saying if you have a goal and are really committed to that goal – stay focused! Commit to excellence in everything you do. You will be amazed at how this begins to seep into every area of your life. Consider this the sun with all of its infinite heat and power cannot start a fire until its energy and power are concentrated and focused with a magnifying glass.
Ask yourself “Am I focused and What is my commitment to Excellence?”
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